Year six

Year Six

2010. Lokien is 6, but just a couple of months away from 7. Kajerik is 3, and about halfway to 4.

It has been a while, I guess maybe because we have all become a team somehow. It just flows, and everyone is mostly sane now. Kajerik used to have tantrums, as you would expect of 3 year olds, but they too, have faded and can be averted.

So Lokien started school. That was quite the journey. Back at the start of the year, we were still quite concerned about his Speech Delay, and how it would affect him going to a Japanese school. Everything would presumably be harder for him as he would not have full Japanese at home. At the same time, his English would be much better than anyone in his class, but of course, compared to a child in New Zealand, we would be lagging in English as well.

By default, you tend to get assigned to the school that is closest to your home. In our case, it is Sanya School. But the largest school in Shibuya ward is Jinnan, but has a much higher number of foreigners, and after school care for those with special needs. Naturally we went to both schools to get a better understanding. When they say 'special needs', they really mean it. They can handle children with serious afflictions, way beyond what Lokien needs.

Either way, we applied for Lokien to go to Jinnan as well, and figured that the decision would be made for us. Either he got in, or he didn't. We went to the lottery day for Jinnan school. Basically, they do a lottery to determine the order of the children in the waiting list. Lokien got number 19, out of 26. So it was hard to know for sure. Previous years had seen all 30 children be placed, and some years only 12. We figured we would stay in the waiting list anyway, and went on holiday to NZ.

When we got back, as we had not heard anything we had figured that he was still in the waiting list, and Sanya would be the school. We were quite pleased with this out come, as Sanya is very close to home. There is only one road to cross, and it has school crossing guards. We could see the benefits that Lokien could earn his independence to walk to school on his own (eventually) and all his class mates would all live nearby, walking distance. Whereas, Jinnan would be at least a Bus ride, or be transported by one of us parents.

When we went to Sanya to sign up, they were a little surprised as it turned out, he did in fact, get accepted into Jinnan as well. Hah, so much for letting the decision work itself out. Oh well, we had already mentally prepared ourselves for Sanya, and that we would have to help him with extra work. So, Sanya is the school.

First day of school, we all joined in, there was a ceremony, and photo ops, the usual speeches and so on. Lokiens class has some 36 students (the exact maximum for a single class). He already knows one friend in the class, who went to the same Hoikuen (day care) as Lokien. Lokien was really proud to get his own train pass, home key and independence to walk to school without us. We do still tail him ' up the road' where he meets his class mates, and then they go on alone. As it turns out, because he is a foreigner in the school (actually, the only white kid in the school) the ward organises for him to get private Japanese classes when his class has a generic Japanese class. As it turns out, since there are no foreigners in year 2 either, he gets 2 private classes a week. This turns out to be really good news. Had we known this last year, we might not have stressed as much as we did.

He seems to excel at maths, and English, and appears to be on same level with his Hiragana as the other class mates. Does his homework as soon as he gets home, and no special concerns from his teachers yet. He seems to really enjoy school, and we have no issues to get him going in the mornings. (knock on wood).

He is very easy to get along with now, I have taking him to movies, and find that there is no stress at all, as compared to taking your new born out the first day! He has earned my trust in him after all, and he is great to take out. Not at all an effort to take out on the trains, or to a restaurant, movies and so on. He appears kid to other kids, and does not hit or do mean things. To the point where maybe he is tipping towards being 'too nice', if that makes sense.

Kajerik is still going to Hoikuen, the same one that he and Lokien went to last year. He has moved up